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Job Title: Pageant Queen (Miss Florida Essence 2009, Miss Black Jacksonville are some titles she’s held)- you can call her “Pageant Girl.” (She’s also a law student, piano teacher, tax preparer, organist for a church and on the board of directors for Norman Studios Silent Film Museum.)
Job Description: Competing in pageants commonly in the areas of swimsuit, evening wear, talent, interview and on-stage interviews.
Why did you decide to pursue this field? My mom started me in pageants when I was a kid, so it started to become a hobby that I enjoyed. I love challenges! Pageants make me challenge myself. They also serve as an outlet from school.
What do you love most about it? I love being the center of attention! I absolutely love having all eyes on me. In addition, pageantry takes guts and dedication. To say that I have both and have reached for a goal I set is very rewarding to me.
What is the most stressful aspect of your job? Preparing! It takes mental, physical and financial dedication to prepare for a pageant. You really have to give it 100 percent. Staying in shape, losing weight, preparing mentally for the challenging interview questions and also planning the right makeup, hair and wardrobe combination can all be very stressful but fun at the same time.
What is the most rewarding aspect of doing pageants? To see [that] all my hard work finally pays off. To get up on stage and strut my stuff after months after challenging myself feels great! I may not take home the crown, but I’ve worked hard to accomplish a goal that I set for myself. It’s like setting a goal to graduate, but you really want to graduate on the Dean’s list: even if you don’t wear the honor cords on graduation day, you can at least say that you worked hard to accomplish your main goal- graduating. Not everyone can say that.
What is the craziest thing that’s happened? Pageants are filled with crazy events constantly. Between dealing with your competitors backstage to tripping on stage, pageants can be really funny. I have to say the craziest thing for me was when I was answering an onstage question. I absolutely went blank! I couldn’t even think. I believe I paused for like 15 seconds and was mumbling “um” over and over. That was totally the worst day on stage for me. But I’ve learned my lesson!
Describe a typical day at work for you: A typical day while I’m preparing for a pageant usually starts with me hitting the gym in the morning for a good workout. Later, I practice my talent (classical piano or sing and play a piece) for an hour or more. Other daily tasks are practicing my runway walk in heels and studying interview questions.
What advice or tips would you give someone who wants to do what you do? Give it your all! Be prepared for the unexpected. Anyone can do anything they put their minds to. With pageants, you definitely have to be prepared mentally and physically for anything. My favorite quote is: “The race is not for the swift or the battle for the strong, but it is for those who endure to the end.” If you want to do it, stay dedicated and work hard until the pageant is over, and you can finally say, “I did it.”
Finish this sentence: This career is for you if ____ you have a lot of self-confidence and are willing to dedicate yourself to giving it your all.